Do you believe in soulmates? Or do you believe that there are many people with whom you could find happiness, that you just have to work it out? There are as many perceptions of soulmates, from spiritual and companion soulmates to twin and twin flame soulmates, as there are thoughts on what makes someone the "right one" for you. What do women want from a relationship? What do men want? No matter what you believe, finding that special person to spend your life with usually requires that double-edged sword known as dating, "going out" with someone to see if you have a future relationship in store. This room in Matters of the Heart is devoted to the discussion of dating. Below, you will find a brief intro to each posting.
~ Brief Intros to Current Postings ~
Improving Your Odds for Successful Dating by Harlan Jacobsen
You probably know how to get along with or handle a person once you're introduced. The problem is how to get introduced and get things going.
First of all, when you were 18, the ratio of boys to girls was about right. For women, as you get older the number of competitors per guy increases, rising particularly sharply after 50. Since most gals insist on dating guys older than they are, this means that from 40 to 45 and on, for the women the competition starts to become more keen than it has been. Read More . . .
Hit or Miss: How to Tell if You're Clicking on the First Date by Lisa Daily
All of us have experienced it at one time or another. We come home from a first date, swimming in euphoria, sure that we've just spent the first night of the rest of our lives with our true soul mate. "Mr. or Miss Destiny." "The One." And then, we never hear from them again.
As we sit by the phone, waiting for that second date call (or call-back) we first begin to doubt the efficiency of the phone company. Then we start to wonder if Mr./Miss Right had to suddenly leave the country in the middle of the night, without a chance to call. Then, realization hits. You're not going to hear from them, and you wonder how you could have had such a magical experience, while they, clearly, were unimpressed. Read More . . .
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